Natural FET Cycle Patience

I am trying to be patient as I wait to ovulate so that we can (hopefully) transfer our 2 frozen embabies.  Today is day 20 of my cycle and my ultrasound this morning showed that it hasn't happened yet.  My follicle measured 22mm and seems to be growing at 1/2mm a day and my lining looks awesome at a 12.  The only time I've ovulated this late was after my 1st ectopic and I attributed that to having HCG lingering in my system.  What I hope is good news is that my temp dropped this morning and I tend to get a pre-O temp dip, but sometimes I get it 2 days before ovulation.  So...I wait and wait and wait.  I have another monitoring tomorrow morning and if it hasn't happened by then, I'll continue to go back until it does.  I've heard of wonkly cycles after a failed IVF, so I'm assuming that's why this is happening.

In non-TTC news...we have an opportunity to pack up our lives and move to North Carolina.  My job is opening an office there so I would have my job and they would help us sell our house, move there and buy a new house.  Our money would go a lot farther than it does here.  We are going back and forth in our heads as to whether or not we could actually go.  When I told my mother, she cried and said she would be devestated if I left.  I would hate to leave my family and I don't know if I could do it, but it's a really amazing opportunity and a really nice area in NC.  Hubby flip flops on the idea as well.  Yesterday and today he's ready to pack up the house and head south, but it's different talking about it vs. actually doing it.

So that's the happenings in my life right now.  It's an exciting time with lots of opportunities and potential.